According to an article on Pop Sugar you shouldn’t worry as you are apparently in the ‘overwhelming majority’.
“Even in long-term monogamous relationships, we've been trained to keep our deepest sexual fantasies handcuffed to us like a briefcase filled with nuclear codes.”
Although we all have daydreams and scenarios we create in our minds to get us going, there’s a gap between our ability to fantasise and actually share them with another individual.
So how do you strip away anxieties and introduce your deepest darkest fantasies into your everyday sex life and admit your sexual fantasy to your partner? The happiest long-term couples provide their advice which they agree pays off big time.
Here are four things that allow the happiest sexually adventurous couples do to bring their sexual fantasies to life:
“Adventurous couples find ways to share their sexual fantasies with each other. Try to keep the lines of communication open while you're testing out new fantasies. Everyone is unique, so don't be afraid to mix and match, alter, change, and customise your experience to discover what works best for you, both individually and as a couple.”
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